What is Midlife? 

#RealTalk vol 7

"Few things in this world are as delightful as a woman who has arrived at an age where she has so few fucks to give she can't even be bothered to tell you how little your opinion means to her.” - The Q

The Universe will give you what you need when you need it. When I read the above quote from my dear friend, Amand Q. I screamed out loud, “Fuck yeah!” Her words popped up in my Facebook feed as I questioned if my brand of authenticity is maybe too much for some folks. 

It’s not insecurity that causes me to question myself; ultimately, I don’t want to offend anyone unnecessarily. I especially don’t want to alienate or repel someone who would otherwise be open to reading what I write. 

Honestly, though, it takes way too much energy to care what other people think of me at this stage in my life, I’m not everyone’s cup of tea nor do I want to be. I say fuck and shitballs often, not for shock value but because I’ve earned the right to express myself as colorfully as I so choose.

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